What on earth is he thinking? Many women find themselves in a situation during a date where they believe that a guy is interested, but they aren’t sure. They compare the way he acts to how they would act if they were interested and make judgments based on those comparisons.
It won’t work. Guys display their attraction differently than women do. Experts predict that only 7% of attraction is shown through verbal communication, 38% is displayed through tone and a whopping 55% is shown through body language. This means that women who recognize the meaning behind male body language have a big advantage in the dating world!
So, how do you know if a man finds you attractive? There are certain behaviors common to most men who are trying to win a woman’s affection.
He wants to look good! A man who is interested will do something called preening when he first sees you. This may include straightening his tie, fixing his hair or brushing his clothing. If he is making sure that he looks his best he is attracted to you.
Watch his face. Men have some automatic responses to women they find attractive. Look for the eyebrow raise. Immediate attraction is shown with a slight elevation of the eyebrows. Watch his lips. His lips will part for a split second if he is attracted to you. Watch his eyes. Do they seem to scan your entire body? Does he hold your gaze just a bit longer than he needs to? If so, this guy is interested!
Is he strutting his stuff? There are certain stances that a man will take to appear larger and more powerful to a woman he wants to impress. For example, he will put his thumbs in his belt loops or his hands on his hips to broaden his shoulder and chest area.
Watch his body positioning. Just like women, men will turn their body toward the object of their attraction. If his body is turned toward you when you interact, he is interested in more than your conversation.
If you are aware of these tell-tale signs, you can spot male attraction and won’t waste time trying to gain the attention of a man who isn’t interested. Using body language as your guide, you’ll eliminate guesswork and be well on your way to a mutually fulfilling relationship.
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